ANY SURGERY PROMISING TO INCREASE SIZE

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"ANY SURGERY PROMISING TO INCREASE SIZE – ENILE ENHANCEMENT SURGERY OR CELLOPLASTY – THE RESULTS ARE NOT VERY ENCOURAGING. NOT UNTIL ONE HAS CLEARED ALL DOUBT, AND UNLESS THERE IS GENUINE NEED, ONE SHOULD NOT GO FOR IT. IT SHOULD BE THE LAST RESORT" – DR PRAKASH KOTHARI

You know what they say about men with big feet?” wondered Julia Roberts aloud to Hugh Grant in that sunny sweet romantic comedy, Notting Hill. She of course chickened out of the actual rhyme and playfully offered “big feet… large shoes” for the answer.

Whether the size of feet is any indication of the third foot is for the myths department to clarify, but whether meat well hung is indeed a criterion to trigger off those pleasured moans has as many answers as there are members. Size is to man what weight is to a woman. As if getting sex wasn’t enough of a challenge by itself – what with all the grooming to be done and pick-up lines to be rehearsed – parking woes too prove to be quite a bit of stress for a guy and his pony. Though women are usually known to be far too polite to diss a man squarely on his face for his underwhelming assets – we know this because the blogosphere and online groups are filled with pent-up frustration of some 'O-not-so-happy womenfolk' – most men do fret about their insufficient trunks becoming subjects of ‘small’ talk at a party.

Says leading sexologist of Asia, author, and Founder Member of Advisory Committee, World Association for Sexual Heath (WAS), Dr Prakash Kothari, “For sexual gratification, there is a minimum length which is required. But sexual pleasure is not a performance to be gauged; it is pleasure to be shared between two individuals… An archer, as you know, is known by his aim and not by the length of his arrow.

Size of the erect penis anywhere above of two inches is good enough. I believe “the longer the better” is Godzilla logic. What is important is satisfaction of the partner. If a man is unable to satisfy, due to being unable to perform or if he reaches climax too soon, or whatever be the reason, then Vatsyayana mentioned 1600 years ago, that the man should use one of oral sex, masturbation or artificial penis, or what are now known as vibrators or dildos. What’s important is satisfaction, and not the act per se.”

Length of a woman’s piece of real estate doesn’t really come close to long schlong concerns, but even if there were such a thing, Anna Arrowsmith (See ‘Up, Close and Personal’) assures us, “I remember reading The Female Eunuch where Germane Greer says no woman likes to think of herself as having a large vagina, and that was back in the 70s. Women do worry about this, but for us at least there are pelvic floor exercises that help an awful lot and pretty quickly too, which is more help than men get.”

Men can probably take heart in the fact that ultimately what lies between the ears, than that between the legs, is found more covetable by the fairer sex, though the skill to make the gong strike the G-spot certainly doesn’t go unappreciated. In any case, the XL fellows have their own set of problems to contend with, something like a Hummer with mileage issues/in city traffic. At the end of the day (not necessarily), emotional propositioning and decent positioning will go a long way for little Johns to make bragworthy bedroom conquests too.

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Anna Arrowsmith shares her perspective on size concerns

Managing director of adult entertainment firm Easy on the Eye, and female porn film director for over 12 years.

Apart from size, what other elements is pleasure a function of?

Pleasure comes from the understanding that sex is different from other things in life; it is a game with its own rules. Of course, respect and consent are key, but after that all else is about pleasure. For instance, dominatrixes' dungeons are full of professional men who are very demanding in the rest of their lives/jobs. Yet they pay large amounts to be spanked and spoken down to. Sex often acts as a counterbalance to the stresses and expectations of the rest of life. Don't engage the head (or the morals) too much. It follows that what happens in the bedroom stays there too.

Does porn serve to raise expectations and thus leads to increased feelings of inadequacies inside the bedroom?

Only if people already think negatively about porn, but those people will always be looking for reasons to add to their list of negative beliefs about the industry. It is unfair to blame the industry for raising expectations when other forms of film are not blamed in the same way. Imagine complaining to comedians that they set an example of life that is far funnier than reality, and thus we are all depressed with our real lives as a result. Porn directors don't prefer to show real sex, we show sexual entertainment. I think porn also does a good thing if it causes people to ask questions about how fulfilling their sex lives are, to a point. Why not try something new? The biggest killers of relationships are boredom and over-familiarity, not overactive sexual imaginations.

Anna Arrowsmith’s tips to enhance pleasure between the sheets...

My only tip would be to assume that your partner has more pent up sexual desires than polite society lets them voice (after all, don't you?). Sex becomes alive after this threshold has been surpassed. The trouble is, even in a world where sexual pleasure is being spoken about more and more, it can still be very difficult to overcome embarrassment and fear in your own relationship. Communication is key, as is having an open mind whilst respecting both yourself and your partner. In my experience too, women have a wider (and often more politically incorrect!) set of fantasies than men.

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THE VIAGRA REVOLUTION HAS CAUGHT THE IMAGINATION OF INDIANS BUT LOCAL APHRODISIACS STILL RETAIN THEIR USES

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There are only but a few things that fetch instant unanimity. Sex, for instance. Doctors the world over agree one of the drivers of good health is good sex every day, no doubt. But for those living amidst the din and bustle of urban metropolises, where the routine and drudgery of office and professional life is enough to slow down, if not actually finish off sexual appetites when getting into bed itself becomes an ordeal, people are turning to aphrodisiac-fired Viagra to heighten their libidos.

While the local sex stimulator has always come handy – with an abundance of sex clinics willing to impart education and technique – the emergence of the blue magic pill has radically altered the scenario.

Launched in the US market in April 1988, Viagra has become all the rage with more than three million prescriptions written for it. The oral medication has been hugely successful in not only treating impotence but also enhancing sexual performance to a great extent. Launched to control high blood pressure, Viagra's efficiency to treat impotence was discovered only later, and that too by accident.

Since then, the magical pill has given the local aphrodisiacs where ever they may be, a run for their money. India's tryst with Viagra began in 2005 when it was launched locally. To begin with, the availability of the pill was a problem, but no longer. Over a period of time it has become the magic word for close to 100 million Indians suffering from erectile dysfunction. The 50 mg tablet priced at Rs 463 is now easily available at the local shops while markets are flushed with about 15 versions of the Viagra, priced for as little as Rs 22. It is because of its low price value that many Indians – though still a minuscule minority of the population – have started using it at the cost of traditional therapies. For example: Rajesh Tripathi, who once regularly used Unani aphrodisiacs to impress his partner, has now turned to Viagra.

"There is no substitute for Viagra as it gives instant results. I have used Unani and other desi approaches, but I like the blue pill as it does not take time. With this pill I can also go on for a longer time." This is not to suggest that the arrival of Viagra has completely finished the local vaid and hakim. They continue to have their own loyal following, particularly in rural areas and amongst those who fear the Viagra because of its supposed side effects. Plus, there are many who are willing to pitch in their lot with Unani and Ayurveda medicines as a safer bet. Hakim Syed Obaid-us-Salam, who runs a dispensary in Ghaziabad, concedes that there is no alternative to Viagra in the Unani stream of medicine because of the different approaches to treatment.

"We go to the root of the disease and try to nip the aliment whereas Viagra is different as it only increases blood circulation locally, enhancing sexual performance. Its excessive use can lead to headache, bleeding and heart attack." Dr SV Kotwal, who heads the urologist department at Sitaram Bhartia, says the arrival of Viagra has opened an avenue never available earlier. "Many clones are easily available in India. I have prescribed it to many patients as it is effective," he points out.

With the rush of this sexual adrenaline, even Homeopathy claims it has a solution for the low libido. According to Homeopathy practitioner Jawed Ahmed, there are medicines available in his stream that can treat impotency and other problems. "Our way of treatment is different from Allopathy. There is no instant relief in Homeopathy, a patient has to go through the treatment for a long period of time." Some known Homeopathy brands of aphrodisiacs include Damiana and Salimum. Yoga too, traditionally, has asanas that help improve the libido. But these treatments take time. The realty is that none of them may come close to Viagra as far as improvement in sexual prowess is concerned.

Viagra's biggest asset is its price when compared to local sex-enhancing medicines. For about Rs 300, there could be a dramatic improvement in their performance as compared to Unani and Auyrvedic medicines which are expensive. Besides, the treatment methodology in traditional techniques is also time-consuming. Tripathi, who has at some or the other time used all the local brands, says their best results can be obtained in months, if not years. Too long a time to wait.

He also points out that desi medicines are no longer cheap; a month's treatment may cost anywhere between Rs 5,000 and Rs 10,000 depending on the hakim or the Ayurveda. Happily for all concerned, there is space for everyone. The Viagra craze has not blinded traditional visitors from haunting their favourite hakims and vaids. Add to it the ever-mushrooming sex clinics, like the legendary New Delhi-based Sablok Clinic, and it would tell us why India is the land of the Kamasutra.


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Sex is a candy

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While it is difficult to put an exact worth tag on the value of the sex trade in Delhi and NCR, it is safe to assume that the amount runs into crores of rupees. As night falls, business picks up. It may be difficult to find a STD booth at night, but you will never be too far from finding sex. Deals are struck in subways, or the girls simply wave down a car and get inside.

Elsewhere on central Delhi's Mandir Marg, muscular boys carrying red handkerchiefs in their hands roam with ease while Moolchand flyover is practically taken over by transvestites. To sum it up, there is no such specific area in the city that can be labelled as a 'red light area'. And the one that is labelled, that is GB Road, is no longer the place it used to be.

We look up a website suggested by a college girl and come across a list of 56,000 girls and boys, the majority of whom are studying in one of Delhi university’s many colleges. We call a number listed on the website (971718****). The first call is made from a land line and goes unanswered. The second from a mobile is taken.

An angry male voice asks, “What do you want?” We ask for Aditi and are again asked, “But what do you want?” We say we want to meet her. In return, we are told if we want to meet Aditi, we would have to book a hotel room. The charges would be about Rs 8,000 for an hour to Rs 15,000 for a night. As a parting shot, we are told that we should not bother calling until a room is booked.

Next we dial a gigolo at (931230****). This belongs to Raj Shrey. He tells us he charges Rs 2,000 but that he would talk to us only if there is a girl to interact with. We offer more money and ask him who his clients are. The usual suspects, group of working women and housewives, are thrown up. In a typical night's work, Raj Shrey has to satisfy three to four women. If the clients are happy, in addition to Raj Shrey’s charges, they also give him coupons to shop with in malls. Unsurprisingly, Raj Shrey refuses to share any phone numbers.

The advent of mobile phone has helped sex rackets. They just get their numbers registered with a telephonic assistance service such as Just Dial in the garb of massage parlours, and half the work is done. We dial the massage parlour (958293****) and a female voice informs us that in addition to a massage and bath, we can get “real fun” for Rs 2,500. We could pick a girl from a Greater Kailash address. We get 10 phone calls through Just Dial and of these eight are of a similar nature. People in the flesh trade operate in the garb of friendship clubs, escort services and massage parlours.

While for professional sex workers, it's a full time occupation, there is an emerging tribe that indulges in the flesh trade occasionally, usually to meet their extra expenses, and without quite knowing the ramifications. Most of these youngsters are outsiders who are in the city to study, but want to enjoy the glitz of the metro.

When we approach as potential customers we are welcomed. But reveal your identity and out you go. Many phone calls later, we win the trust of a woman who agrees to talk to us on the condition that we do not carry a camera or a recorder. We agree. She meets us at the metro station of Kailash colony but only after ascertaining that we are clean. Swathed in brands and smelling of money, this is a very attractive woman. She begins talking to us and laughs at the thought that it is the first time in recent memory that she is meeting men without haggling for sex.


We sit down to have mango shake at a juice corner. She tells us that she is a graduate from the Delhi university in the batch of 2006. She was tired of hostel life where night would fall premature at 8 pm, a bore. So, along with three others, she rented a two bedroom flat in Kamla Nagar.

Living out of hostel meant the expenses got hiked many times over. One of the girls got an offer for sex during the 2004 DUSU elections after which she began getting back late every night. One evening she took the others out for a lavish treat and divulged the source of her newly-found wealth. Her pimp would send her to upscale hotels where she got Rs 5,000 per client. She was paid Rs 15,000 the first time after which it came down to Rs 5,000.

Of the four friends who walked down that path, three are now married. Their overriding fear: no one should recognise them when they are with their husbands. In the 20 days we spent on researching this story we found that sex is available everywhere in Delhi and the NCR. Also, that college going girls and boys are the freshest baits. They are lured by easy money and once in, they find it difficult to break free.

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